Exactly the Link I was going to post, Ken :^)
I completely agree with the comments made by GaryHarris, gene6029 and of course RCKen.
one other point to add, since you asked the question:
a simulator can have some value for learning basic stick movements, but it does NOT replace a good trainer aircraft AND instructor.
banana hobbies and hobby king both have some pretty serious customer service issues, (I've bought from both, have had issues with both)
support your Local hobby shop! (
www.towerhobbies.com is us based, and does have excellent customer service)
find a local club (you're in california? there are tons), JOIN the AMA, and keep asking questions :^)
AMA:
http://www.modelaircraft.org/
Find a local club:
http://www.modelaircraft.org/clubsearch.aspx