I've dealt with these types before. it's "their" club and "their" rules, If yuou don't like it too bad. I have an issue wtih clubs that are run that way. Personally, I'd ry and remember that thsi is a hobby and is supposed to be fun for all. Have you polled other club members as to their opinions as to these issues? Find out what some of the other memebers thing about these issues, adn go from there. If they're all in agreement with the president, then I guess that's the law of the land. If not, then there are avenues for you to pursue. But try and remember, in all this, it's a hobby, it's supposed to be fun, but if you can't relax at the field and just fly and have fun, then it's time to do something.
Just my two cents....