Yeah I know exactly what you mean, I have a number of kits, not just the BUSA ones that I would love to start but they all have different difficult areas that need to be tackled, balancing that with running a business and a having a 11 month old and keeping a wife happy can make priorities hard.
Looking at different build threads I have decided to put off building the top flight cessna 182 and will probably do the BUSA n28 or N17 next.
The internet really is an amazing tool, you can gain so much insight into something you thought was so simple yet learn it may not be so.