RE: Help
The battery that is in your picture has a bec plug. The esc(battery side) has a Dean's Ultra Plug. My suggestion is to cut the end off the battery (NOTE: one wire at a time, so you don't short it out) and solder on a female dean's connector.
I think dean's are the best, I use them on everything.
You may also have to put a male deans on your charger to be able to charge.
The capacitors solder to the posts on the motor.
The red, white, blue wire goes to the throttle channel on the RX.
The bullet conntors are fine like they are.
Also what ever you do remember red to red, black to black, so on and so on. BG