Annoying flirting.
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RE: Annoying flirting.
ORIGINAL: Finnmarken91
nah, shes a plain jane, not the hot type, what makes her special is her personality, thats why it always gets to me.
nah, shes a plain jane, not the hot type, what makes her special is her personality, thats why it always gets to me.
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The sad thing is, she wasnt always like this. She use to laugh and smile at me and talk to me, but now she justs grins and stares with scowl and makes no sign of friendship. Its like a plane that crashed off the runway.
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Im trying, but I just think its not the right time right now you know. I feel the right one will come when its time. I just hope I will eventually.
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RE: Annoying flirting.
I think you should completely ignore this person and go on with your life; before this situation takes a turn for the worse.
There is more fish in the sea; that is something to remember.
There is more fish in the sea; that is something to remember.
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ORIGINAL: Finnmarken91
Well i didnt want this to become personal, but if you want the truth here you go, she has a boyfriend, but has been emotionally attached to me numerous times and yet it seems to not stop no matter what i do. So basically she is playing with two guys at one, and its hard to know what you do, because you can tell them to stop, but sure she will continue to. I know because i have told her to stop before.
Well i didnt want this to become personal, but if you want the truth here you go, she has a boyfriend, but has been emotionally attached to me numerous times and yet it seems to not stop no matter what i do. So basically she is playing with two guys at one, and its hard to know what you do, because you can tell them to stop, but sure she will continue to. I know because i have told her to stop before.
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RE: Annoying flirting.
im confused. at first you said she was flirting with you a lot and you didnt want her to. so now that she isnt flirting with you anymore your still upset?
it sounds like you got what you wanted but your not happy with it. I think you dont know what you want. Can you just answer this question.
DO YOU WANT TO BE WITH HER?!!?
if so, just tell her.
if not, then dont worry about it.
i dont think she is bi-polar, i just think your giving the girl mixed signals. and she is also sending them back your way. communication is one of the most important aspects in ANY kind of relationship. you dont know what she is thinking and she doesnt know what your thinking. untill you actually go up and ask to talk to her about everything that is going on then your going to be in the same spot. asking us the same questions and 2 weeks from now this thread is going to be 100 pages long.
just talk to her about whats going on in your head.
at the very least you wont have to wonder what to do anymore.
it sounds like you got what you wanted but your not happy with it. I think you dont know what you want. Can you just answer this question.
DO YOU WANT TO BE WITH HER?!!?
if so, just tell her.
if not, then dont worry about it.
i dont think she is bi-polar, i just think your giving the girl mixed signals. and she is also sending them back your way. communication is one of the most important aspects in ANY kind of relationship. you dont know what she is thinking and she doesnt know what your thinking. untill you actually go up and ask to talk to her about everything that is going on then your going to be in the same spot. asking us the same questions and 2 weeks from now this thread is going to be 100 pages long.
just talk to her about whats going on in your head.
at the very least you wont have to wonder what to do anymore.
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RE: Annoying flirting.
Inform her that you had an open topic about her in a RC forum and it went 4 pages long. Then let us know what happens next.
>Can't believe that went on this long.. its always the really weird and useless topics that stick the most< [&:]
>Can't believe that went on this long.. its always the really weird and useless topics that stick the most< [&:]
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RE: Annoying flirting.
I am not trying to be rude but why is this guy trying to get advice from an Rc forum; he's a grown man and should make decisions on his own.
I have read all his replies and it seems like he is doing the same thing this woman is doing; using everyone that is posting replies for emotional support.
If this ongoing situation that is happening to him was meant to be it would have happened already; maybe it is time for people on this forum to not even post advice for him.
Because no matter what this woman is not going to leave him alone and she knows that she will be able to get his attention when she feels like it; I do not think he will report her because obviously he has feelings for her.
I think they are both a little or a lot unstable and that is not a good mix but I cannot blame him because I was in a very similar situation with my ex-wife; I am sure many of you have been in this situation also.
I have read all his replies and it seems like he is doing the same thing this woman is doing; using everyone that is posting replies for emotional support.
If this ongoing situation that is happening to him was meant to be it would have happened already; maybe it is time for people on this forum to not even post advice for him.
Because no matter what this woman is not going to leave him alone and she knows that she will be able to get his attention when she feels like it; I do not think he will report her because obviously he has feelings for her.
I think they are both a little or a lot unstable and that is not a good mix but I cannot blame him because I was in a very similar situation with my ex-wife; I am sure many of you have been in this situation also.
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basketballfan quote: but I cannot blame him because I was in a very similar situation with my ex-wife; I am sure many of you have been in this situation also.
This is probably why he's asking for advice in here.
This is probably why he's asking for advice in here.
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RE: Annoying flirting.
ORIGINAL: snoking16
Yeah Tbjunkie...lets highjack it. Im tired of this crap already. so how hot is she? is the jeep lifted? lol
Yeah Tbjunkie...lets highjack it. Im tired of this crap already. so how hot is she? is the jeep lifted? lol
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The only reason a girl would like his Jeep is because it's a chick Jeep,
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Yeah Tbjunkie...lets highjack it. Im tired of this crap already. so how hot is she? is the jeep lifted? lol
Yeah Tbjunkie...lets highjack it. Im tired of this crap already. so how hot is she? is the jeep lifted? lol
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RE: Annoying flirting.
dude...this thread is 5 pages long. You have everyones opinion on it. what else do you need? just pick one of the 100 things people told you to do and do it. You just need to do SOMETHING. dont let it go, grow a spine, be a man, and tell her whats going to happen.
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No, because you can't man up and tell her to stop like people said over 10 times and counting. Sounds like middle school romances or something.
Anyway, TBJ, and HJFA... Getting rid of the Lincoln and getting a evo or sti for winter use. Keeping the mustang though. Just still trying to decide between evo or sti, I go back and forth like every day.
Anyway, TBJ, and HJFA... Getting rid of the Lincoln and getting a evo or sti for winter use. Keeping the mustang though. Just still trying to decide between evo or sti, I go back and forth like every day.
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Wow, can we stay on topic.
Wow, can we stay on topic.
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ORIGINAL: tommygun32
Set up a video camera, record her flirting with you, show her the tape and threaten her with legal action or that you'll show the tape to her now b/f if she doesn't stop....
Set up a video camera, record her flirting with you, show her the tape and threaten her with legal action or that you'll show the tape to her now b/f if she doesn't stop....
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RE: Annoying flirting.
Dude, you never answered the question if you're attracted to her or not. Cuz not only is she confusing you, you're confusing us. Do you want her or not? you've got to make up your mind before anyone else gives you advice.
(and yes i'm a plane guy that knows what forum i'm in)
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(and yes i'm a plane guy that knows what forum i'm in)
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