RE: How do you fly your planes?
Are you asking about our preferences as modellers, spectators of full-sized flying, or as as participants in full-sized manoeuvres?
For myself, in all three cases, I like big, open manoeuvres. I don't care much for violent or aggressive flying styles, as I find these both ugly and "mechanically unsympathetic".
And, in the spirit of debate, I'l add that it's much, much more difficult to fly slowly and accurately, than it is to fly quickly and accurately. Anyone gonna take the bait?