ORIGINAL: Charlie P.
Sure, video simulators get you used to moving your thumbs as necessary to move the proper linkages and control surfaces. But it is only a crude representation of live flight. No distracting pit activity, bugs behind your glasses, wind gusts, stale fuel, wild pilots flying against the pattern, poorly tuned engines, badly trimmed models, binding linkages, loud noises, blind spots from looking at the sun, etc.
And they don't emulate a BEE STING right on your face as you're flying!!!
That was an experience...
Simulators are GREAT tools, and greatly reduce the amount of time required to learn.
Nothing replaces actual stick and field time however.