Fridge, welcome to the Hobby / Sport. The best thing you can do, is listen to what these other people have recommended. I have only been around for a short time, but by listening, I have learned a bunch. What Gary Harris said, 20 years and he is still learning. I hope to be so lucky! You live in California, so you get alot more flying time than a lot of others, but I think a Sim is a good start. I was stuck working in the Great White North, for an extended period, so it helped my get a rolling start when I bought a trainer. Plane coming at you and going away from you are two different animals. Also, the reset button, is very inexpensive. What AMA said, support your local hobby shop. If you don't, when you need them, they aren't there. I try to deal with my LHS as much as possible. Talk to them!!! Mine will give me the same or better price than buying online. You won't find out if you don't ask.

Have fun.