Thanks so much for all the suggestions and comments, I have a friend who flies and hes going to help me once he gets back from a 6 month departure. Next time I talk to him Im going to bring the fact up that I want to start flying, I told him a year or so ago that Im looking to get into it.
He said the same about the simulator, but he also said itll give you the feel for the TX because their not like the ones for the cars, boats and trucks I use. I have flown some small planes, like toy ones and did pretty good, it actually seems harder with the small ones because if theirs a tiny amount of wind those things get blown around like crazy, never crashed one of them, few interesting landings but never wrecked!
Keep them coming guys. Thanks