War Thunder is good if you want more simulation as you can poke your head out and get instantly killed through ammo rack, fuel tank hits and your crew being taken out at once.

WoT is arcady in terms of gameplay. But it still has a deep system for bouncing shots, angling your armour, going hull down, spotting, scouting and camo ratings.

Red Orchestra 2 has tanks and you can switch between the crew if you're the only one driving. It's tough, but it's fun. You can turn out as the commander and get sniped from infantry if it's a combined arms match.

ARMA 2 and 3 has tanks, but it's more RP and infantry based. But there are mods for WW2 gameplay.

There's one where you are in a Tiger or T-34 but I can't remember the name.