Your experience sounds a bit limited to me. That being the case I would avoid the Super Sportster and the Rambler. They are good planes but would be a bit frisky for you. At this point I think the best choice would be the 4* in the 40 engine size. It has a very wide speed range which means that you can throttle back and catch your breath if things get carried away at high speeds. Its also a good tail dragger trainer. You do need to come in slow to land. If it is above walking speed it will keep flying without losing altitude!!