RE: Needing help
I'd go with the JRXS. But if you go that route, make sure you get the JRXS Type-R. It's leaps and bounds better.
As for the diffs, don't lock them. The TC4 and JRXS both come with excellent ball diffs. So tighten the rear until it's just about locked, and the front just a smidge looser.