Welcome to the wonderful world of RC flight!!

These are all good recommendations, and I think you'll learn well on any of them.

BUT!! Flight instruction is a must. You'll save a bag of money and hours of frustration.

If you live a hundred miles from the nearest club, at least invest in a flight simulator and spend a lot of hours with it before you even try to fly. (And you might want to consider buying one of the cheap foam electric Parkflyers to start out if you can't find an instructor.)

Just my opinion.
Dennis-