thank you all for the info looks like i did come to the right place.

'untill i find the part i need i thought id give a try at making one so i got jb weld putty and made a mold
then aftrt it got hard i mixed more putty and pressed it in and made the part , i still need to drill it out for the rod to go thought
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the jb putty seems to get real hard but i dont know if it will work and for how long but maybe it will last till i find one.

thanks for the help and the good sites to go to , this is a good site