RE: REALFLIGHT SOUND PROBLEM
Likely to be caused by your drivers.
All realflight does is hand off the audio output to the DX drivers to handle.
If you are using on-board audio as opposed to a dedicated audio card like a Sound Blaster... it is possible that your computer may be busying out too much due to latency elsewhere.
Sometimes using non-oem drivers will GREATLY reduce audio latency on built in sound chips eliminating such issues.