RE: Wing Loading
One thing you can't change or scale is Physics. Air molecules behave according to certain laws of physics.. Ever heard of Reynolds Number? I'm not an aeronautical engineer, but I do know it has to do with the ablility of a larger wing (actually the chord line) to carry more per square inch/foot. It's a factor of the ability of molecules to follow the surface of the wing and it's effect on the pressure or lack of pressure , due to the flow. It's actually used in fluid dynamics, and air behaves like a fluid.
Basically, it's why "Bigger is Better".
Dash