I had to update my email info and somehow accidentally deleted my account?  Anyway.  Doug nobody is threatening Tam unless you mean threatening to notice that he seems oddly quiet when asked to own what he wrote.  Joe I don't know you personally but I know who you are.  You seem like a legit stand up guy so I know where you are coming from.  I agree that <u>none</u> of this rediculous stuff belongs here, but I disagree that it should be private at this point.  It was not in private that Tam leveled a very serious accusation at Shawn.  Where I come from you don't get to say someone got in trouble with the cops for sending nasty pictures online unless its true and frankly I don't understand why you guys would tolerate that kind of thing and give him cover for it.  Friend or not, that's not ok.  I do consider Shawn a buddy, but I don't agree with everything he says and if he wrote something like that about me on a public forum, I'd be bringing a lawyer into his life.  I'm signing off on this one too but I hope people take note and I hope Shawn holds him accountable for that.  Shawn manned up and apologized and Tam should man up and admit he lied or prove the accusation like he was challenged to.   Nobody else here had a dad that taught him that's how a man should conduct himself?