RE: simulators?
Good sims cost a big bunch. If you live close to any clubs you may be better off going out to one and asking if there is a club instructor. A lot of us have our own trainer and buddy box and teach for no cost. Just bring your own fuel.You can buy a good trainer for the price of a sim. I have a sim and loan it to my new students until after they have soloed. A sim can be a good learning tool but an instructor is way better.