RE: Setting up a DLE20
You could try to get some 2mm or 3mm threaded rod perhaps and use the local ball joints. That rod may be available through a bolt supplier rather than an RC shop
Yes, those would be my preferred clevis (In fact that series of clevis is the only clevis I use these days). If you go the clevis route, leaving the throttle return spring connected will help reduce the rate of wear from Engine vibration.