OK, mission complete. I am going to write down how I did, what I did to activate the crow. First a BIG "THANK YOU" to Bob for taking the time to call me and walk me through it. He gave me the one piece of information I was missing.

Ok, here we go. I am going to start with setting up a brand new model.
1) Enter System Menu (hold "ENT" and turn readio on). You should know how to set up the Model Name and Type Select.
2) Under "DeviceSel", select "Flight Mode" and then selct "Flap SW".
3) I have the following switches activated: Gear - Act, Flap - Sys., Aux2 - Inh, Aux3 - Act (brakes), Aux4 - Act (smoke and I have it using the "BUTN" switch.
4) Hit "List"
4) Now go to "Wing Type"
5) Wing type is set to "Normal"
6) Go to Dual - Aile and select "AUX2". This automaticall sets up Aux2 as your opposite aileron.
7) Now, hit "ENT"
8) Set up your "Flap Sys" to your desired settings. Adjust both your flaps and elevators to the desired throws.
9) Now, the only mix you have to do: Go to mix 1 or 2 (multi-point mixes), and set up a "Flap to FPRN" mix. The diagram on the right will show your flap and aileron (or flaperon) settings. The horizontal line is ailerons and the vertical line is flap position. As you adjust your flap switch, you will see the vertical line move across the diagram. Here are my settings for this mix:

Point 0 -60
Point 1 INH
Point 2 INH
Point 3 0
Point 4 0
Point 5 0
Point 6 0

The -60 above shows how much aileron I have for my crow.

I hope this helps a little for those trying to do this. It is hard to try and piece together pieces of information to do what you want.