My first crash was devastating, it was my only plane at that time so it meant no more flying for a while, until I got a replacement.
I even thought this hobby was not for me, (Im not good enough, I will never learn, Im too old for this) Is like when your girlfriend rejects you.
You just have to turn the page and go to the next chapter.
I now have seven planes RTF at all times, I always take at least 2 to the field every time I go, for just in case.
Now it has being a while since I crash but I know for sure it is comming.
As for the girlfriend......... what goes around comes around