RE: Need help/suggestions
I have real flight, which has been very helpful.
I started out with the e-flite Apprentice, which is a really nice flying plane. Parts are readily available, it is pretty tough, and once you have mastered the basics it flies inverted and does basic aerobatics better than most high wings I've seen. It is also a blast to float fly.
If I were to do it again, though, I'd go for the plug and play, and get a DX7 or 8, some Gens Ace Batteries and a 4 bank charger right off the bat. The DX5 that comes with it is fine for what it is, but once you have a 2nd plane you will want a computer radio with model memory.
Anyway, the advice to check out your local field/club is excellent and should be your first step.