I think it all depends on which part of the hobby you like and how much. I think I am 75%-25% I like to build more than fly and I like flying. I have had a couple of ARF's, taught myself to fly on one. I build from kits and plans and I mix it up. I will go from a old school stick kit to a laser cut self jigging kit to building from plans. Sometimes I like a relaxing quick build without alot of hastle and sometimes I want the challenge of a tough kit or builing from plans and cutting all the parts myself. To me the tougher the build the more satisfaction and pride in the finished product.
The great thing about this hobby is there is just about everything available to fit everyone's needs and desires. Kits and ARF's come and go but you can always find something to build and or fly.
Later!!
Anthony