RE: going to try instead of arf.
I agree with all of the posts about a Sig kit. LT 40 for beginner flying, Four Star for intermediate, and the SSE next. With all of the build threads out there I wouldn't worry about a mistake in the instruction manual. I built a Ultra Sport 60 and used Minnflyer's thread as my instruction book.
I have a 4star 40 and I think the 60 would be a bit better as it would handle wind better and be more visible. I've also heard good things about the Venture 60, which was designed by the guy who did the 4 star series. It may be difficult to find a kit, but they are supposed to be great flyers.
The best part about building your own is the fact that you can finish it as you want. Nobody will show up at the field with the same plane.