RE: Beginer Advice needed..
I don't usually reply, but generally ask questions. Your post struck a chord with me, so I'll throw in my opinions. A trainer, is a trainer, is a trainer. I bought the Superstar 40 with the 40 LA and Futaba radio combo at a LHS after deliberating for way too long about what to buy. My engine runs like god and my plane flys the same (even after a number of epoxying jobs). Join a club. As stated in previous posts, you'll make friends and the learning curve is increased (decreased?).
I'm not sure about the $ thing as my AMA and club dues were under $100 (and that seems a lot as I type it). I appreciated opinions when I started (last fall), but remember that some of the opinions are from people that own equipment that they've worked to get to and might be overkill for someone just starting out. Buy the best that you can afford (i.e. the 6exa or better), but a simple 4 channel with a combo deal will last a while. Even though I've moved up in my equipment, I don't regret buying a 4 channel radio. I've written way more than I thought I would, so I'm going to stop and read some more posts.
Have fun in the hobby!
PEACE