Thanks for the insights.

Some people just like to fly the planes, that's why there are arf, rtf and so forth. Thats perfectly fine.
Some people like to build and fly (like me), its too bad there are less kits around, but there will always be builders out there, hence some kits and a loads of plans out there.

I was just worried of crashing a trainer restarting the hobby, but as Gray Beard said, few trainers get wrecked. That gives me options, whether ARF or kit.

This last summer, I visited my uncle, and I flew and landed hiselectric trainer and as he said I landed it smoother than him twice. I will just take it slow and get help from an instructor the first flight or 2 and see where that leads me, I am not worried.

This website is great, made that way with enthusiastic people like you all. Thanks again.

I guess now I have the fun problem on deciding which plane to buy and its electric equipment.