RE: The Member who never came back
Face it: Being a new club member if you are even the last bit shy or apprehensive is tough. I was never one to barge in and suggest things, but I always like making friends at clubs. One RC club I belonged to would each month have EVERY ATTENDEE write down a suggestion, and then they would go around the room and listen to each one. Got more people involved rather than having the important few in control which I have seen at some clubs. That same club's president called me out of the blue once to talk, but he did it with everyone apparently. Good leadership helps, but some people will never be happy.