My personal way of thinking is that to get her some building experience go with a built up wing kit.
Thanks for all the input, this site and members never fail when it comes to info or helping out others. AJ, you are right on with your thinking, a kit that is built in a couple of nights will not satisfy her. The flight streak jr should be a good choice for her building skills and interest in the hobby. If all goes well, maybe she can help finish my FW190 for me.