Umm, you guys have serious problems I would consult a clinical psychologist.

Names are just names, they are qualitative and used solely for identification purposes. If everyone accepts them as a norm then they can be referred to in that way.
What bothers me is things (without naming names of companies) like a cow advertising a chicken place. Uh, I'm no farmer but thats a dairy cow they use in the ad, what does it care about people eating beef?