I agree there are many good trainers out there.

When asked the question I answer it like this:

A) You want a model you can see.
For example...Bright color on top with darker color on the bottom. This way you know what side is up and down.

B) You want a FLAT BOTTOM WING.
The model will be more forgiving.

C) You want a .40 size airplane
Anything smaller and it can be hard to see when your flying 2 mistakes high.

D) Get with someone with flying experience.
Crashing your first model can be not only be discouraging but also costly.

E) Built your model straight and true. Then set everything up as instructed. If you need to add weight to balance your model DO SO. The model must be balanced to fly.

I taught myself to fly many years ago and Yes it can be done. But my advice is to seek help from people in the hobby already. It could save you money as well as airplanes.

Besides, Like many good trainer airplanes there are many good people willing to help anyone new to the hobby.

How do you find someone willing to help you? (I won't lie to you ..There are some that won't. just move on.) The best way is to locate a flying field and visit. Watch who flies and who sits around and bs's. Talk to club members as many clubs have people that are known as instructors. There job (with in the club)is to help new people.

Myself being self taught (not by my choice) I know what it is like when you can't find anyone to help and it is for that reason I will go out of my way to help anyone interested in the hobby.

BTW Welcome to the sport of RC Flying Jeff and Best of Luck to you!