Kids usually learn flying quicker than adults. During the "basic" trainer phase, you get used to minimum control while going round and round. During this time you also hopefully get over the "dizzy" part. If there is a nearby club or at least an experienced flyer, they usually have a basic trainer you can "borrow" to learn on. Plan "B" IMHO would be something like the Skyray or Osborne Platter with external controls so they can be adjusted. This can be done at the handle IF you have an adjustable handle. As mentioned in a previous response, you probably won't spend much time with this plane.

The next plane should be more maneuverable. My suggestion would be a Skyray 35 or one of the other profiles. I mention Skyray 35 because all of the ribs are the same so replacement when (not if) you have to fix it is easier.

Of course we all have our favorites due to our own experiences. Good luck, whichever way you go.

George