You are 100% absolutely right on point with that. Unfortunately as you might see by this and many other threads, even in this thing we do called RC there are plenty of folks filled with anger and hate and distrust and cynicism. Pick a thread, most any thread and you'll find it. Hate on quads/drones/mr certainly isn't the only issue. Hobby vendors, oh how about helis, or perhaps the dreaded 3D pilots versus the Warbird dudes. Don't leave out the anti-arf crew, after all if you didn't scratch build it, you aren't actually a real "traditional" modeler. Finally, there are the foamies...I mean, are they really even good enough to deserve to be in this hobby? I mean really...foamies!

This hobby is just like any other hobby or group, it's a microcosm of humans and all of our issues, good and not so good. If it flies and is safe, have at it I say.

Obligatory disclaimer since it's sadly needed: I don't do helis, quads, MR, or drones. It's fixed wing only for me.