Thanks guys, and if I told you this didn't even put a dent in my wallet or my ego, I'd either be lying or still in denial, lol
Yes Duke, at least I know what had happened and be able to share.
I would drill an inner hole if possible, otherwise, upgrade to a beefy JR arm and cut it shorter. Fender, I think the kit is good, not the easiest obviously but for the rewards of a Tomcat from its complexity and challenge was worth it and lands like a ***** cat too.