RE: Lack of Civility, or antaganism
I have to agree with Ed and I think I know the root cause. Too many folks are overly defensive of their opinions and beliefs. I have a times found myself guilty of this very selfish trait. You could even sum it up as "folks being too thin skinned." The good news is there's an exercise that can help. I use it all the time and it works. Just scroll down and you'll see.
Very Good! Now that's enough exercise for your first day.