The main thing you need at this stage of the building game is good instruction included with the kit...It sounds like you have been dealing with some larger planes ..so a couple of these are fairly big.
If you would consider a biplane I hear these build and fly well.
http://www3.towerhobbies.com/cgi-bin/wti0001p?&I=LW9049&P=0
If you are looking to try something more scale looking, but with good flying habits maybe the.. Sig 1/4 Spacewalker?
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Legal for IMAA and QSAA fly-ins, this is an exact 1/4-scale model with the heart of a sport model.
It's made for flying! The thick semi-symetrical airfoil and long tail moment provide perfect stability and low speed handling. At full-throttle, it will do all the aerobatics you ever dreamed of.[/TD]
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Wingspan[/TD]
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84 in[/TD]
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2134 mm[/TD]
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Wing Area[/TD]
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1110 sq in[/TD]
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71.6 dmē[/TD]
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Length[/TD]
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60.5 in[/TD]
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1537 mm[/TD]
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11 - 13 lb[/TD]
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5000 - 5900 g[/TD]
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Radio Required[/TD]
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4-Channel (not included)[/TD]
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Engine Required
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2-Stroke .90 - 1.20 (15 - 20 cc)
4-Stroke 1.20 - 1.60 (20 - 26 cc)[/TD]
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A couple guys in my club have these planes and love them... GP Super Decathalon..
http://www3.towerhobbies.com/cgi-bin/wti0001p?&I=LXYXJ7&P=0