If you visit this link you will find a list of all the AMA chartered clubs in New York.
http://www.modelaircraft.org/templat...5E31DE4FA6F552
Don't know what your area code is but this club has a 607 area code:
460 MODELERS OF BINGHAMTON INC
These also have 607 area codes
CORTLAND AEROMODELING SOC*
FLYING SPARKS INC
CORNING TRI RIVERS RC MODELEERS
TRI COUNTY MODELERS
APALACHIN AIRWOLVES RC SOCIETY
BINGHAMTON AEROS
GIANT SCALE AIRCRAFT ASSN
ONEONTA RADIO CONTROL FLYERS
AEROGUIDANCE SOC INC
Hopefully a couple of them are close enough for you to visit. Perhaps you can find one that has a membership that will meet your interests and your budget.