Try " Relaxing " . Since these fancy electronic" fly for ya " systems have come out I've noticed a LOT of people BANGING the sticks around . Most planes only require a very small movement of the sticks . People that learn on a symulator usually have a heck of a time getting used to a plane . If I'm teaching someone, I don't want the system even turned on!!! My feelings are if you can't learn to fly without the electronic helping hand , find someone else to hold your hand . Sorry but that's the way I feel . Yes I know there isn't always someone to help , then you just have to wing it. Red Good Luck