Jeez guys, how about taking the debate as to who is a an old fart and who is a young goober to private messaging, Mkay?
To answer the OP's questions- The great thing about Flite Test is that there are usually extensive threads about what works well with their planes. Do a little searching and see what you find.
I'm going to suggest starting with a true trainer plane though. Your previous RC experience will help some, but flying skills still take time to develop.
An instructor is also a very good idea. Flight isn't like RC cars and boats where you just bash around until you get the hang of it. There are some things to know, and an instructor is the best way to learn them.
Welcome to the forum. We'll be here to help however you decide to go about it.