RE: warped ailerons
Obviously, it depends on the strength of the wood. In most cases, only minor pressure would be required to hold it straight. After a short time, the wood would relax and the warp would disappear. But if it's an unusually strong piece of balsa, and needs a lot of pressure to get it straight, then I would replace it (or try the "wetting it and bending it the opposite way" method to try to straighten it)