BE-40,

I am in the same boat as you. I have flown r/c planes and had a t-maxx.

I began by reading RunRyder.com posts and posting questions as you did.

Solution:

Everyone has a different opinion. All good, but different.

Flight Sim. is an excellent idea. I also found a great deal on E-bay and picked up a fully loaded new never used or assembled JR Ergo 30 ccpm for $325
I know I probably over did it, but the deal was great. I also picked up some used textbooks from the local college bookstore on heli. flying and got a copy of Ray's Authoratative helicopter manual.

I am just buying the Futaba 9CHP and the Futaba GY401 gyro if not the 502.

I wouls like to share so much more, but my hands are hurting from typing.

My email address is [email protected] if you want to chat.

good luck and as the experts said in one recent thread I was in "have fun" with it.

t-meggs