OK the Wildcat post has prompted me to state the following:

"I have always found that in the forums where you can not hear the tone of the other persons voice or the facial expressions that it is had to jusdge when they are serious or just poking fun. No biggie here, I really wish that people would pay attention to the emiticons That people use, and not to take anything personal unless it is stated directly in the posting.

I for one try to never take any posting as flaming unless the person states so. We need to be really carefull not to read to much into what people are posting. I am sometime brief and to the point, just to save time.

This is a great place to hang out, and I do not think that it has been a problem like other places, So lets all put our on and have fun!!!!"