First time I tried this hobby, I bought a trainer and crashed first time out. 17 Years ago
Second time I tried I bought a Helicopter, I got as far as hovering and crashing. 15 years ago
Third time I tried this hobby I started with Helicopters again. This time I was more successful I am a well accomplished Heli-pilot. 3 years ago
Last summer I tried my hand at planes. With the Helicopter experence behind me I was able to solo my first time out. What made me a success? The internet! People on forums like this and others. While I was forced to learn hands on on my own, I feel I never was alone or without help. The internet community of RC Pilots helped me. Second having todays flight sim programs has helped as well.

Looking back at it all, I would do nothing different. The key is NEVER be in such a hurry that you will try something beyond your capability. Yes, you can do it on your own. But you need to be mature and patient.

The great thing is this hobby is about community as much as it is about flying.