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"But unless I move to a "RC friendly" state I think the dream is off. I have never been able to even toss a glider in the air before being sent away... yet I have been called names... my radio interfered with and told I was not welcome to go through with plan in having an RC airfield on the property."
KG...
In that case move to a more friendly state.
Here you can buy 10 acres bordering on a very nice flying site. 5 plots still available. Close to various kinds of vacation land, fresh water, salt water, free beaches, boating, fishing, hunting, and shopping. Within 10 minutes of vast area of homes and shopping. No restrictions except that you will be deed-restricted to protect flying field for 20 years.
Since I know not the zoning, etc. in your state's unincorporated areas, I (and no one else other than your state's locals) cannot offer advice concerning your legal rights on private property. I know TX and MI. In MI, the townships tell you every move to make and when and how to do it. In TX a man still has a lot to say about his personal property. I do love FREEDOM so.