Fwiw, some of your 'requirements' are almost contridictory. Scale warbirds are fun to fly, but they aren't capible of the wild acrobatics that a plane designed for that stuff is. Most guys settle in to one type of flying or another, while other guys wind up with a hanger full of aircraft that all fly differently, depending on their mood and what they want to do at the moment.

There are lots of threads on here about 2nd planes. Just do a search on "second plane" or "2nd plane" and you'll have plenty of links to specific kits of all sorts.