RE: ARF Kit for first time built
The Somethin' Extra will probably be too much for you skills. Although it can be fairly docile when set up right, it's actually a "Fun Fly" which is meant to be flown quickly with a lot of loops and snap rolls, etc.
I'd second the 4 Star 40, or a Great Planes Super Sportster, or one of the other "kits" you'll find recommended on this site.
Dennis-