Whats the saying, "you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink"

then again may be the horse isn't thirsty, or it likes beer!

all you can do is give people advice and options, if they choose to follow some other path that's ultimatly there desicion, as long as there happy with there choices i'm happy.

Even if i am talking to a room full of deaf people one of those deaf people will be able to lip read and that 1 is enough to make it all worth while.