Calm down, is it in the original box? If it can be disassembled and put in to the original box you can ship it USPS priority mail for around 30.00. I do it all the time to Alaska and we are some of the most $ to ship to/from. You are being scammed the lady is obviosly not using all of her options to get it to you for the least money. UPS/Fed EX are some of the most outrageous prices that I have seen for shipping items this large. I would love to help you with this process this is one area or R/C flying that I do have some knowledge of. Keep me posted I willl try to help you through this. Shoot me an Email with your phone number and I will call you if you like, Keith.