I'd like to chime in. For one, we won't call you FNG!

Your post will generate lots of recommendations, based on different perspectives. Mine is that of one who flies larger planes. Some people on the forum like the lightweight electrics, even if they don't have full aerobatic capabilities.

If you want to get into larger planes or warbirds, your NexStar is a good intro. Also, a good flight simulator is a good purchase, for practice long after you've mastered the basics. I use mine to practice new maneuvers, for instance, four point rolls, rolling circles, inverted flight, etc. You won't want to risk your plane on those, the first time.

Another recommendation, based on the larger plane perspective : find a good instructor (by observing him teach) and get him to show you the basics, with a buddy box. Furnish the hardware (trainer cord and box), and schedule according to his availability. This should result in your first plane lasting long beyond the training period - perhaps even holding value as a used sale item.

Of course, if you prefer the little park flyers, these suggestions may be of little use to you. You're the one who knows your preferences, and you'll have to make some decisions along the way.

Good luck,
Dave Olson