OMG(osh). This is my gripe for almost 20 years and has caused me to leave more than one club. Advice to get an instructor is good, but here's my feeling and I'm sure a lot share them with me...

'IF I WANT YOUR HELP OR WANT YOU TO SAVE ME SOME MONEY I'LL ASK!!! Otherwise if I'm not harming anybody but myself then shut the heck up.'

I've ask for help here and at the club field many, many times, but guess what, IT'S UP TO ME TO ASK NOT YOU TO TELL. I'm sure the overly helpful people are really nice people, but WE ARE NOT YOUR CHILDREN. I bet 9 out of 10 people moved out of their parent's house so they could stop being told what to do. Adults making their own decisions? Wow, what a new concept. < sarcasm

And for the zillionth time I'm not talking about children.