Wild,
As FH has already said, you need to add at least $150 to the cost of the plane, radio and engine, for a typical 40 size glow trainer.

If your budget is $200, and you MUST learn on your own, and have 2 cleared acres, you should probably read up on the GWS Slow Stick. By buying that, you can use standard radio equipment, but mini servos (like Hitec HS-81's) would be better. The radio equipment can then be used in a glow trainer later.

It will run you about $200 for the plane with (electric) motor and gearbox, radio equipment, battery packs and charger, and ESC. You just won't be able to buy a real good radio.

There are other "Park Flyer" type planes that will also come in around that price range, but be careful because many of them require a micro receiver and micro servos. Those will not be useable in a glow trainer if you decide to move up.

If you decide to go the glow trainer route, then you really should join the AMA (most clubs require it for the insurance), then join a local club and go out to talk with them. See what radio equipment they use, and buy compatible stuff. But expect to spend in the $450 to $500 range for all new equipment and memberships.

(Sorry, just re-read your post. Being 16 will save you about $50 on AMA membership, and most clubs have a discount for youths too.)

The other glow option is still the club route, but ask around when you're there. You can often buy used stuff and save $100 to $200.

Good luck,
Dennis-